friend crushes are the worst.
actually every relationship in my life is fucked up.
i don’t know really
Friend crushes are bad, but you know what’s just as bad, if not worse?
You meet a guy that is perfect for you it seems. He actually makes you feel good to be you. He listens to what you have to say. And you are similar, hell, there are times where you can finish each other sentences and say the same things at exactly the same time.
You don’t have any of the same classes. You occasionally bump into him. But when you do, you just hang out and talk for hours about what you’re thinking and feeling.
But this all happens right before you graduate university. Time is of the essence. You hope to bump into him more, which you do. But, then you find out that he’s going half way around the world and you might not see him in person again.
You think, why couldn’t we have met sooner? Why, oh why, oh WHY couldn’t we have met sooner…like a year or two ago?
Meeting someone that seems to be the right guy at the eleventh hour and then realizing that there’s almost no chance that the relationship with be able to be a romantic one is just as bad (or even worse) then the friend crush…at least in my opinion.